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February 14, 2011 |
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Ignoring
Clint Eastwood's advice in "Dirty Harry" that
opinions, like certain body parts, are best kept to
yourself.
A tragic
end to a wonderful life |
Last
Friday evening, I was home alone with the dogs and cats,
watching television, when the phone rang. The caller
identified himself as an Anoka County deputy sheriff,
calling about a fire at my in-laws farm house. The house was
ablaze, and the deputy was hoping that nobody was home. I
told him I would find out and call him right back.
With
a sinking feeling, I called my wife at our daughter's house
where she was babysitting, and she answered almost
immediately. "Hazel", I said, "do you know
where your folks are?" Hazel told me they would be at
home. "Honey," I said, "the sheriff's
department just called, and your folk's house is on fire."
I heard a gasp, and so it began, with frantic calls to other
family members on my cell phone, as I headed south on the 40
mile trip to to my in-law's farm.
My father-in-law, Walter
Ehrnreiter was born in St. Paul, Minnesota in 1917
and became a bit a world traveler, going to the
Yukon as a young man, and during World War II his
military service took him to the U.S. Airbase at
Stephenville, Newfoundland. Wally was a guy that
made friends easily, and it wasn't long before he
was dating Helen Mary O'Quinn.
Moving back
to Minnesota after the war, Wally and Helen
purchased a 70 acre farm in Ham Lake, 20 miles north
of Minneapolis. With a home built before the turn of
the century, the propery had rolling hills, oak
trees, and blueberries for the picking. Wally and
Helen raised all kinds of animals, including horses,
pigs, cows and rabbits. My wife tells of a goat
that thought it was a dog, and would butt the front
door open to get in the house. Once in a while,
Wally would take his shotgun out into the field and
bring back a "government chicken" for
dinner. You and I know them as "pheasants".
I
met Wally and Helen's daughter in college, we dated
a few times, but I lost track of her for a while.
Later, I worked in Minneapolis, and one day I was
looking up a number in the phone book and saw a
listing for "Walter Ehrnreiter" in Ham
Lake. Could that be Hazel's dad? I dialed the number
and Hazel answered the phone. Fast-forward to 2011,
Hazel and I will celebrate our 45th wedding
anniversary this year, we have 9 children, and we're
expecting our 14th grandchild. |
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I arrived at the farm about the same time as
the other family members, parking down the highway, as a
couple dozen fire department and sheriff vehicles with blue
and red lights flashing took up the area near the road
leading through the trees into the farm. There was nothing
to do but wait and watch the coming and going of firemen and
law enforcement. After an hour or so, a squad car came over
to where we were parked and asked us to follow him back to
the fire station, a mile or two away, where we got the bad
news, Hazel's parents had perished in the fire. At age 93,
we all knew that someday these folks would be gone, but not
this way, not to die in a fire.
Photo
Credit: Glenn Howes (Grandson)
A lot of
tears were shed that night, with not much sleep. The next
day, Saturday, the farm was still busy with emergency
vehicles. The firemen and sheriff deputies had been there
all night, making sure the fire was out, and now the medical
examiner and fire marshall were doing their work. I sat in
my car along the side of the road, waiting for some final
word.
After a while, men and women in various
uniforms started to come down the driveway, get into their
vehicles and drive away. A fireman that I'd talked to the
night before saw me and walked across the highway towards
me. He reached in his pocket and took something out, saying
"When we were removing your father-in-law's body, we
saw he was holding this, and I thought you would want to
have it:" The fireman handed me a rosary. Composure is
hard to maintain at a moment like that.
The fire
was the top story all weekend on Minneapolis and St. Paul
television stations and in the newspapers:
Minneapolis
Star Tribune
Obituary
in the St. Paul Pioneer Press
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From my son Glenn in Nashua, New Hampshire: I
have very few photos of Grampa and Gramma, but this is one from
Thanksgiving, 2003: (
new
window ) God bless you all. Through Wally & Helens
love so have we all been blessed with an abundance of love. ~
Barbi Owen-Boerger What a wonderful tribute to Helen and
Wally. Two love stories for your children, grandchildren and the
rest of us, thank you for sharing. ~ Geri Recker - Mitchell, SD So
sorry to hear of this tragic fire. I remember your mom well,
Hazel, and we had such a nice time at the Ehrnreiter farm years
ago when your son John and our boy Danny were younger. So many
years have gone by and so much happens. I'm very sorry about all
of this. ~ Carol and Dennis Vohler - Int'l Falls, MN Ron, I
am so heartbroken to hear of your loss of family members. May
God be your peace and strength through the storm. We are saying
prayers for you all. ~ Ken and Kay Lynn Sarkey - Edmond, OK
I am so sorry to hear about Wally and Helen. I have so many
great memories of time spent with them while John and I visited
them in the summers. I always had a great time working and
playing around the farm and they always made an effort to keep
us busy with all kinds of projects or running errands with
Wally. Thinking back to those years, and what busy boys Im
sure we were, really shows how kind and generous they were to
welcome me into their home and care for me. I am very privileged
I got a chance to know them and very thankful for the wonderful
memories they gave me. ~ Daniel J. Vohler - Int'l Falls, MN Thank
you so much for the articles on your parents and in-laws so sad
to hear of their passing in that way. Our sincere condolences on
your loss. we don't think of growing up in our child hood with
out thinking of them! or walking by their house on the way to
the old Lake Netta store. They will be sadly missed. ~ Billy
Kunshier
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