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                    | Ignoring
                    Clint Eastwood's advice in "Dirty Harry" that
                    opinions, like certain body parts, are best kept to
                    yourself. 
 
  When
                    our nine children were growing up and still at home, I used
                    to joke that someday Fathers Day would be like Christmas,
                    what with all those gifts I'd be getting. As time went on,
                    and children became adults and left the nest, some reality
                    set in, not so many gifts, fewer cards, and sometimes even
                    missed phone calls, as busy schedules and lives of their own
                    took shape. 
 When the kids were little, the cards
                    were almost always homemade, done in crayon, and these are
                    things that are never thrown away. Once in a while, I'll
                    find one in a drawer and enjoy it all over again. When my
                    youngest daughter was in grade school, the Fathers Day
                    assignment from the teacher was to write a short essay about
                    your dad, and I still have it. "My dad isn't the
                    greatest dad in the world, but he's mine and I still love
                    him". Then it goes on to tell how hard I work to
                    support the family, and how happy we all are. The last
                    sentence still makes me smile. "My dad lives to
                    watch 60 Minutes", which is true, I hardly ever
                    miss it.
 
 
  As
                    I aged right along with them, the idea of having these new
                    adults with lives and obligations of their own going out and
                    spend money on things I really didn't need became less
                    appealing. I would tell the kids on a regular basis not to
                    buy me anything for my birthday, Christmas, or Fathers Day,
                    I really didn't need anything, and, fortunately, they
                    believed me. Once in a while, one or more of them violate
                    this agreement, it is nice to be remembered, but I try to
                    keep it a secret from the others, not wanting to start
                    something. 
 I do look forward to the cards and phone
                    calls, and technology has changed that a little, I've had
                    more than one Fathers Day email, and last year one of the
                    boys left me a voice mail hoping I was having a great day. I
                    guess that counts, and I told my wife to put him back in the
                    will.
 
 
 
 
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