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June 15, 2014 |
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Ignoring
Clint Eastwood's advice in "Dirty Harry" that
opinions, like certain body parts, are best kept to
yourself.
When
our nine children were growing up and still at home, I used
to joke that someday Fathers Day would be like Christmas,
what with all those gifts I'd be getting. As time went on,
and children became adults and left the nest, some reality
set in, not so many gifts, fewer cards, and sometimes even
missed phone calls, as busy schedules and lives of their own
took shape.
When the kids were little, the cards
were almost always homemade, done in crayon, and these are
things that are never thrown away. Once in a while, I'll
find one in a drawer and enjoy it all over again. When my
youngest daughter was in grade school, the Fathers Day
assignment from the teacher was to write a short essay about
your dad, and I still have it. "My dad isn't the
greatest dad in the world, but he's mine and I still love
him". Then it goes on to tell how hard I work to
support the family, and how happy we all are. The last
sentence still makes me smile. "My dad lives to
watch 60 Minutes", which is true, I hardly ever
miss it.
As
I aged right along with them, the idea of having these new
adults with lives and obligations of their own going out and
spend money on things I really didn't need became less
appealing. I would tell the kids on a regular basis not to
buy me anything for my birthday, Christmas, or Fathers Day,
I really didn't need anything, and, fortunately, they
believed me. Once in a while, one or more of them violate
this agreement, it is nice to be remembered, but I try to
keep it a secret from the others, not wanting to start
something.
I do look forward to the cards and phone
calls, and technology has changed that a little, I've had
more than one Fathers Day email, and last year one of the
boys left me a voice mail hoping I was having a great day. I
guess that counts, and I told my wife to put him back in the
will.
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